Girls only - looking 4 help?

She sounds like she really liked u, but seems to be having trouble letting go of her ex 4 whatever reason but making her jealous by talking about the other girl was probably not wise. When u told her that it kinda gives the hint u don't want to be with her in that way. The best thing u can do is just say u r sorry u haven;t been able to talk to one another and u will always be there 4 her and tell her how u really feel about her.